How can we help you?

Register free with your name and WhatsApp number. We send an invitation, then a short guided setup collects your details, photos and preferences. Verification keeps the community genuine.

Early members who join during our launch window. Founding Families get full membership free until February 2027.

Those are our home towns, but Catholic Bandham is for Catholic families across Kerala, India and abroad. You can pick any location — including Gulf, Europe, US and more.

Yes. At registration you can choose whether you are registering for yourself, your daughter or your son.

No — and that is the point. Nobody can browse or search anyone. We introduce suitable, verified families to each other, so your profile is never sitting in a public list.

By faith, family, education, profession, location and your own stated expectations — through a staged match and our matchmakers, not open search.

Only substance — story, values, education and compatibility bands. No name or photo of strangers is shown until both families agree.

If you are interested in an introduction, that interest reaches the other family. If they are interested too, it becomes a mutual “yes”.

Only on a mutual “yes”. At that moment both sides’ full details — name, parish, house and contact — unlock together, at the same time. Nobody is revealed one-sidedly.

Yes. Passing on an introduction is private and no identity is ever shown.

Only verified, gate-passing families, and only inside an introduction. Your profile is never public and never searchable.

“Open to introductions” (recommended) lets our system and matchmakers include you in introductions. “Matchmaker-only” means only a human matchmaker introduces you — you never appear in automatic introductions.

Yes. You can exclude your own parish, specific pincodes or neighbourhoods, and specific families or house names.

A government ID and a live selfie, at least one photo, and your basic details. That is enough to submit for verification.

Church record, community reference and income proof are optional and can be added any time.

It is matched against the photos on your profile to keep out fake accounts. Your selfie is never shown to other members.

Usually within 24 hours. You will get a WhatsApp when your profile goes live.

Up to 5 photos, plus one short video if you like.

Never. Photos are watermarked and shown only to verified, matched families. Family photos unlock only after a mutual reveal.

Because there is no browsing and photos are watermarked with the viewer’s identity, casual copying is discouraged and traceable.

No. Your income, assets and lifestyle details are private — used only by our matchmakers to introduce you to genuinely suitable families. Other members never see your figures.

Only to help place your profile with the right families. None of it is ever revealed to anyone searching.

It is optional. If a family you match with has set a verified-income expectation, adding proof earns you a “verified income” badge so you surface to them.

You state your own expectation (for example an income band or location). We match against it silently — the other person’s actual figures are never shown to you, and yours are never shown to them.

Founding Families get full membership free until February 2027. We still show real pricing so you always know what you are joining.

Yes — a 30-day money-back guarantee, and there is no auto-renewal.

No. We make no sales calls and will never pressure you.

Yes. Pick your current country and city; NRIs and diaspora families are very welcome. You can set your rooted home and your current location separately.

Yes — family logins are supported so parents or siblings can help.

A trusted community member or parish contact who introduces and vouches for families. They never handle money or see anyone’s private details.

See the “For ambassadors” page and apply — we will guide you through enrolment.

See “For parishes”. We enforce verification, privacy and respectful conduct, and stay independent of church processes.

Every member is ID- and live-selfie-verified with a community reference, and because nobody can browse, profiles cannot be scraped or harvested.

Use the report option inside any match. Our safety team reviews reports, and early sharing of contact details is flagged.

We focus on the right match, not transactions. Misuse, fraud or harassment leads to removal.

With your registered email or phone and your password.

Contact support and we will help you reset it securely.

Yes — edit them any time. Your progress is saved as you go, so you can leave and pick up where you left off.